It’s the Little Things

(Guest post by Geri Kochis – Geri blogs at EmilyAnn)

As a warning – This post is my own opinion and I apologize upfront if I offend anyone.

In the Geri dictionary, Cheerleader would have had following description: cliquish, flexible (body), high energy, lot’s of makeup, crazy parents, revealing clothing, and popular (kids/teen/adults).

Emily joined a special needs Cheerleading squad in October/November of 2010 (Idaho Cheer Spirit). This was a competition squad, so they did more than just practice. I wasn’t sure how it would turn out and really concerned she wouldn’t perform well enough. The kids not on the special needs squad also worried me. Most of children (even adults) don’t know how to react to Emily. It is not uncommon for her to walk up to strangers and say she likes their shirt or shoes, or just say random things. To make it worse, Emily has bi-lateral hearing loss along with 18p- so her speech can be hard to understand at times. The response to Emily is usually, umm.. ok and then a confused look directed at me. I didn’t think Emily would fit in with her traits combined with my thoughts on Cheerleading. Here were are 5 months out and a National Championship later and I can admit I was wrong about everything.

Not only did Emily’s squad welcome her with open arms, but so did the entire gym (Idaho Cheer). No one cared that she would say random things, or sometimes get distracted by the other squads tumbling. The promoters/producers of the competitions made the squad feel special and they always received at least medals. The support from all the parents (different gyms, states) at the competitions was great. I can’t think of once where the entire crowd wasn’t cheering for our girls. The spirit squad had great coaches that always encouraged the girls to do their best without discouraging.

Idaho Spirit has had junior coaches. These coaches were girls from another squad with an age range of 11-15 (maybe a little order/younger). I have never in my life encountered girls that age who were so accepting of differences and truly cared about the girls. The parents of these girls should be proud.

This past weekend Idaho Cheer Spirit earned the title of National Champions (along with 4 other special needs teams) in Anaheim California. Cheerleading has made such a difference in Emily, and me as well. The Geri dictionary has definitely changed.

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2 thoughts on “It’s the Little Things

  1. Hi Geri! Thanks so much for your blog. My 11 year old daughter has just been diagnosed with 18p deletion. For the last 11 years, no one had been able to tell us more than developmental delayed. She was a normal full term baby. No problems to mention except she was in the 95th percentile for height and weight. For the first year of her life, we took her every month for weight and height checkups to see if it was thyroid condition. Everything was fine and eventually she leveled out but has always been in the 95th percentile. I would love to know more about the special needs cheerleading and if they have any other squads in different states?

    Thanks so much!

    • Hi there! I’m gonna answer in case Geri doesn’t see this. My 10 year old has 18p- also. Found out when she was 3 yrs old. We live in Reno, NV. There’s a special needs cheerleading squad here too, not related to the group Emily is in. Do you know about the Chromosome 18 Registry? Website is There’s a private list serve and we are also on Facebook. You can connect with me on FB – and then you’ll be able to connect with many other 18p-‘ers. Where do you live? You can message me on Facebook or send me an email to camilla @ camilladowns . com. My website is and my daughter, Lillian’s, website is – Please connect with me when you get a chance! Glad you found us!